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Permalink Reply by Amanda on December 21, 2008 at 4:34pm

well, all people in this world are different, so nothing important whats the difference. women just care about the feeling. no matter older guys or younger guys. "LOVE" is crazy, unreasonable! nothing connect with age~~~~.
if you see young girls with older guys, maybe just the woman looks so young like me; and or young guys with old ladies, maybe they are mom and son...... who cares, they're happy!!!!!!

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Permalink Reply by MisterF on December 21, 2008 at 6:29pm

Self-Confidence. That's the big difference. Self-confidence is very attractive in men and women.

hmm, well when I was a young man in my early 20's I know I was shy and not good meeting women I fancied. But I still met women but often they would approach me first. I lacked self-confidence especially on a first meeting.

Now, I'm older and I've left my shyness behind I can talk to almost anybody without fear. Because as you get older you will naturally become more confident. Confidence grows with age.

Experience. That's another big difference. People with life experience are often seen as more interesting. They've probably travelled, had adventures, sex with many partners. Stuff like that, so they can tell a lot of stories and even be a teacher.

and it works both ways. Older girls can teach younger guys things, especially in bed. My first serious lover was 2 years older than me. I was 17 and she was 19 but I was almost a virgin and she'd had quite a few lovers already. So I still thank her in my heart for teaching my how to be a good lover.

Older men with younger women is more common because men tend to be sexually active their whole life and can father children. They also tend to earn good money and are able to give younger women financial security. Also, men are much more visually stimulated and so a younger girl is more sexy to us. Whereas, most women place less value on the looks of their bf and more on his personality.

I must admit almost all my lovers in recent years have been in their 20's. So I'm definitely following the stereotype route, lol.

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Permalink Reply by Amanda on December 23, 2008 at 12:15pm

I agree! so young boys, don't be so jealous of older guys who have young gfs, check on yourself! ^0^

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Permalink Reply by Angela on January 13, 2009 at 9:06pm

Young girls with old man, if this old man is rich and healthy, they still can be loved and making love well.

Young fellow with old woman, whatever how rich and how nice this woman, does her sex life satisfy the young man, no cozy sex life, how their relationship will be?

Just one of the point.

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Permalink Reply by Angela on January 17, 2009 at 1:05am

Suky, lovely name and very kindly comments from you.

This is a really ever topic people talking, and the opinion will never be the same.

Nice weekend.

Suky said:

Nahh sorry, I don't agree with you.....

In general, men have sex less and less by the time when they are getting older. Physically ED (Erection Disfunction) problems will come out when men get old. And of course they lose the sexual desire or found that sex is not as good as when in 20 years old...

But ladies, in general they do have stronger sexual desires when they reach 35---40 years old. Some even have stronger sexual desires when they are 50. Besides, even if the ladies lost the sexual desire, they can still complete the process of having sex, because ladies will never meet with the problem of Erection Disfunction and they can always pretend that they enjoy the sex.

Okay, after the explaination of physical reasons, so suppose that the couple are both healthy. it's ok for a younger man to be with an older woman, and they will NOT have sex problems unless there's something wrong with the young man's dick. But 38 years old young lady will definitly find that 68 years old guy cannot satisfy her easily.

My point about sex is totally opposite of your point, Angela.

And one more, I don't understand why you mentioned "rich". I DON'T think the reason for two people get together should be based on whether the man is rich....

Angela said:

Young girls with old man, if this old man is rich and healthy, they still can be loved and making love well.

Young fellow with old woman, whatever how rich and how nice this woman, does her sex life satisfy the young man, no cozy sex life, how their relationship will be?

Just one of the point.

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Permalink Reply by Feliz on January 21, 2009 at 5:15pm

i hearted a joke, it said: girls love handsome man in their 20's, love romantic man in their 30's, love honest man in their 40's,
but man always love younger and beautiful girl in their 20's 30's 40's .... 100's,
so the result is: women change mind frequently, their are playgirl. and men is good, because their insist the idea,

hahaha

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Permalink Reply by Angela on January 21, 2009 at 8:40pm

Hehe, that makes sense.

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Permalink Reply by MisterF on January 22, 2009 at 5:53pm

Another joke is:

"I just get older every year but the high school girls I date always stay the same age."

I don't date high school age girls but my recent dates and gf's have all been in their early to mid 20's. Often college students. I think we just enjoy the same things, like nightclubs and dancing. Older women in Asia tend not to go out anymore. I find that boring.

Also, I disagree with Suky about the age issue between older men and younger women. Now with Viagra, Levitra, and Cialis men can pretty much have a similar sex life (or better) than when they were in their 20's.

I know I enjoy sex much more now than when I was a teenager or in my early 20's. And I do it more often too. I hope to have an active sex life into my 80's. And I'll take whatever medicines I need to make sure I can accomplish that, lol.

Also, it's not so much that women can't have sex in later life, it's more a case of them not wanting to. Because at worst, a women just needs to open her legs and do nothing else, but sex is much more physically demanding for men. Also she can fake an orgasm, men can't. Of course, high quality sex should be physically demanding for both partners with orgasms for both, but that's the ideal situation.

Feliz said:

i hearted a joke, it said: girls love handsome man in their 20's, love romantic man in their 30's, love honest man in their 40's,
but man always love younger and beautiful girl in their 20's 30's 40's .... 100's,
so the result is: women change mind frequently, their are playgirl. and men is good, because their insist the idea,

hahaha

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Permalink Reply by minniemouse on February 4, 2009 at 11:17am

whats the diffrence between young shawn and old shawn?

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Permalink Reply by Micheal on September 25, 2010 at 5:38pm

Well its man's society, sorry ladies to be biased here, u can digest a young lady with old man .... its ok. But when u see a hunk with a old lady u feel a bit disgusting. Some school of thought say that women appreciates maturity,success,money what ever it is
On the contary for ladies with young turk, the saying is she is so hot even at this age ... she needs a bull.

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Permalink Reply by Cookie Yao on September 29, 2010 at 10:01am

feels like im a freak coz i once dated with a 19 yrs old teenager =( but he was super cool and pure ;)))
of course old guy-young chick couple is weired, coz most of old guys could not date a prettie in their own country, sorry im a bit mean to say that they are kinda loser only be accepted by young ladies here. that's why tons of white guys go to east south asia for the sex trip.
Actually i like mature guys maybe 5 yrs older than me, coz im not intersted in those ignorant little punks, you could have a better conmunication with the old guys from spirit if they were high educated （内涵帝阿 =.=||）
anyway it's crap coz what more could u expect from club? just enjou yourself and do not be lost, always know what you are doing to be a smart gal ;)

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Permalink Reply by Cookie Yao on September 30, 2010 at 9:48am

RE Myles, im sorry for leaving you that impression, seriously im not racist, dont have racial discrimination. i like smart ppl no matter he is white or black or asian.

coz most age gapped couple i saw was matched that way =)
actually i dont like most of muslims for the reason you have metioned

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